I’m meeting more people in romantic positions called “situationships”.

 

Imagine you date in New York, Los Angeles, or another large city.

People have too many options.

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A viable partner is in front of you,

but they might have a flaw, so you pass.

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And then go on a date with the next person, who is great;

but also has a flaw. So you pass.

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One person seeks commitment,

and the other person hesitates.

 

Two people have something romantic going, one person ends it;

and later one person wants to go back and revive;

But you cannot go back.

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What do you do in this dynamic?

Get comfortable with ambiguity.​